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Authentic Influencer Podcast

When it comes to building a business online, we are surrounded with the idea that the only way to be successful is to hustle our way to the top and bug everyone you know. I am on a mission to prove it doesn't have to be that way. Welcome to the Authentic Influencer Podcast where authenticity is king and profit is a side effect. My name is Brooke Elder. With over 10 years experience in direct sales and digital marketing, I've helped thousands of women learned that being an authentic influencer is the key to success. Join me each week as I bring you new ideas of strategies and tips on how to build a purpose driven business that is authentic to you.

Jan 22, 2019

“When we don’t have boundaries, when we don’t set them, people don’t know how to respect them.” - NiCole

Is it possible to be a leader in your network marketing industry and still have a life? Our heart can say yes, while our mind is wondering, “How?!” Many of us were drawn to entrepreneurship with a desire to gain freedom and a flexible schedule. However, if you are like us, it can be easy to feel tied to our phone with more messages than time to send replies. If you feel bombarded with “buggy” downline marketers who continue to ask you the same questions over and over, it may be time to make some changes.


“Don’t be the leader preaching time freedom, when you secretly don’t have any yourself. When you don’t have the boundaries you’re teaching, watch imposter syndrome take over your life.” - NiCole

If you are feeling the overwhelm of a never ending to-do list, the first place to start is probably with effective boundary setting. When we’re growing a business, we can be so excited to help others that we want to be available at all hours to help our downline. It’s important to remember that you are not the savior. You are not going to make anyone’s dreams come true in the span of one text answered at 9:30 pm. Your opportunity as an upline is to empower those under you to run their own business! You’re not going to have the time to grow your business organically if you are focused on managing the team you already have.


“It’s way more important in the long run to feel important and needed by your children than by your downline.” - Brooke


This week, find one area of your life that you can either automate or delegate. It could be something practical, like finding a grocery service, or business related, like creating new consultant training videos. If you’re feeling stuck, and would like some help scheduling your day, gain free access to Brooke’s time-blocking system by visiting

In the midst of working towards efficiency and effective boundaries, spend some intentional time with your family this week. Take an hour or two, shut off your phone, and play with your kids or spend time with your husband. There are no emergencies in network marketing, your clients and downline can wait.

Some Topics we talk about in this episode:


  • Introduction - 0:50
  • Intentional Boundaries and Your Sanity - 4:16
  • Empowering Your Downline - 9:23
  • Instacart Your Life - 16:22
  • Your Challenge This Week - 22:34
  • Wrap-up and Takeaways - 25:58

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